Diplomacy 101 - Keeping Your Student Halls Happy

Moving into halls is a big part of the student experience, and it can be great fun – but that doesn’t mean it’s going to be easy! Living with other people can lead to disagreements, but don’t worry.

We’ve put together some top tips for keeping life in halls stress-free.

Friction-free accommodation

How much does a polar bear weigh?

Enough to break the ice! Bad jokes aside, it’s worth getting to know the people you’ll be sharing your halls with as soon as possible. It’s much easier to keep the peace with people once you’ve made friends with them.

• Two truths and a lie – Each person takes turns to make three statements about themselves: two that are true, and one that isn’t. Everyone else guesses which one is the lie.
• Use your common room – Many halls now have common rooms, often with pool or ping pong tables. Why not go down as a group and have a mini-tournament?
• App games – Party games like Psych! and Heads Up are free to download and will have you laughing in no time.

Keeping the peace

The best way to deal with problems is to prevent them from arising in the first place. These simple tips will help you avoid common disagreements.

• Create a chore rota – Knowing who is responsible for cleaning jobs prevents arguments about whose turn it is.
• Set rules early – As a group, decide on things such as guest limits and what time loud music should be turned down.
• Organise flat meetings – Sit down together regularly, maybe once a month, to share any issues or concerns before they escalate.

Worst-case scenarios

If people in your accommodation still end up falling out, here’s how to handle it:

1. Keep calm and carry on – Shouting won’t help. Speak calmly and directly to resolve issues.
2. Safety in numbers – If others feel the same way, raise the issue together so it’s taken seriously.
3. Ask for help – If nothing changes or you don’t feel safe, speak to your accommodation manager for support.

Diplomacy 101

Living in halls can be a hugely rewarding experience, and the people you share with may become lifelong friends. If everyone treats each other fairly – and does their share of the housework – your halls will soon start to feel like home.